My journey into content creation began with a purpose – to educate black people about embracing, loving, managing, and styling their natural hair. For too long, we’ve been told that our natural hair is not neat, professional, or suitable for special occasions. These myths and stereotypes have shaped how many of us view our hair, and I made it my mission to undo these misconceptions. My passion is simple: I want to show us all that our hair is worthy, beautiful, and powerful in its most natural state.
When I started going back to my natural hair, it wasn’t easy. I faced criticisms, microaggressions, and even ugly comments, especially when my hair wasn’t yet as full or glorious as it is now. But I knew better. The start of anything always seems off to those who can’t see the vision. I embraced the process, and over time, I learned how to style, care for, and love my natural hair in ways I never thought possible.
Here are my top five tips for anyone on their own natural hair journey:
1. Be Patient
Remember that for years, you may have been mistreating your hair. Whether through heat styling or relaxing, we’ve spent decades forcing our hair to behave in ways that aren’t natural. So when you decide to return to your roots, give your hair the time and patience it needs to recover and flourish. It won’t happen overnight, but with patience, you will see progress.
2. Consistency is Key
Consistency in your routine is essential. Whether it’s maintaining your hair or trying out new styles, what matters most is that you stick with it. Your hair responds to care over time, so whatever you choose to do, be consistent. This is how you’ll start seeing results.
3. Develop a Routine That Works for You
If you’re just starting your natural hair journey, keep your routine simple. You don’t need a complicated 10-step regimen to see success. Start with something basic that works for you, and over time, you’ll learn more about what your hair likes. As you grow in your journey, you can add more steps and techniques, but in the beginning, keep it easy.
4. Be Confident in Your Natural Hair
For years, we were told that our hair was ugly, unruly, or unprofessional. But let me tell you: it’s not. Be proud of your hair, wear it with confidence, and celebrate it. Your hair is a reflection of who you are, and it is your crown. Embrace it fully.
5. Don’t Be Afraid to Fail
At first, you might get frustrated. You’ll try products that don’t work or styles that don’t turn out the way you imagined. That’s okay! Don’t be afraid to fail, because through those mistakes, you’ll learn exactly what your hair needs. Be patient with yourself and your hair, and be grateful for the growth you’ll experience, both personally and in how you care for your natural hair.
What Inspires Me?
What inspires me is the realization that this is who I am. God made me to wear this glorious crown, and that is exactly what I’ll do – in every style, every shade, and every kink. The journey hasn’t always been easy, but I have learned so much and continue to unlearn the harmful ideas we’ve been taught about our hair. I now know how to properly care for my hair, how to mix products and create DIY treatments that work for me. This process of discovery has empowered me in ways I never expected.
So, to all my fellow naturals out there: stay patient, stay consistent, stay confident. Our hair is a beautiful reflection of our heritage, and it deserves to be loved and celebrated.
Marcia Pedro is a passionate content creator and advocate for natural hair care, dedicated to empowering Black individuals to embrace and love their natural hair. Through her platform, she aims to break stereotypes and dispel myths that natural hair is unprofessional or unsuitable for special occasions. Marcia’s journey began with her own decision to return to her roots, learning to care for and style her 4C hair while navigating challenges like criticism and microaggressions. Today, she inspires others by sharing her personal experiences, hair care routines, and styling tips, encouraging self-love and confidence in natural beauty.